"for the rest of my life, shoes should fit, and people should be in tune."
shoes don't fit, it's your own feet that hurt;
if people are out of step, it's their own heart that hurts.
well-fitting shoes can follow you through mountains and rivers, through thorns, no matter how muddy the road can be safe and sound;
people who are in tune can accompany you through ups and downs, and you can keep warm no matter how rough your life is.
what does it matter if two people get along, set the same life goals, have the same fighting spirit, support and encourage each other, even if life is difficult?
but if the frequency of two people is not the same, then no matter how hard we try, we can't get close together.
as Richard Yates said:
Elegant and striking, nobody should be without our wedding dresses with sleeves. Large varieties of shapes and cuts for you to choose from.
when you meet someone who is out of tune, you talk to him, he can't understand what you say, and you can't agree with what he does.
after such a long time, they are tired of each other, have no words to meet each other, and even feel lonelier than themselves.
not everyone in the world is in tune with you.
just like your kindness, in the eyes of some people, it means good intentions, while in others, it means deep intentions.
just like your persistence, in the eyes of some people, it is a valuable quality, while in others it is a pipe dream.
if you have a different heart, you can't think of one place; if you take different actions, you can't walk the same way.
for people who are out of tune, they will not be comfortable with each other. if you always give in, or even keep going backwards, you must be the one who gets hurt in the end.
writer Su Cen said:
if there is always a little emotion in this world, and you know full well that you have different values and different paths, you still want to keep close to him, reluctant to give up, and can't let go of the past, then the final outcome will only tire you out.
the relationship that really makes you feel good, you don't have to please, and you don't have to make do with it.
if it's not in tune, forget it, because you can't force it to do so.
two people who don't match are like two climbers. One wants to try his best to see the scenery at the top of the mountain, while the other stops after climbing a little bit.
you carry him behind his back, you drag him, you will only feel more and more aggrieved, and quarrels break out again and again.
instead of complaining that the other person doesn't work hard enough and cries that the other person doesn't care enough, why don't you smile, release his hand, and go on alone.
Zhang ailing said:
in this life, there will always be an encounter, amazed each other, beautiful years.
the right person is actually not far away.
maybe he may not be so good, but he has the same frequency as you. You don't dislike him, and he likes you.
two people of the same frequency can make life blossom even if they are in a quagmire.
in the days of two people, even if they are silent, they have a connection.
as the poet Gu Cheng said:
the wind is knot its leaves, the grass is knot its seeds, we stand silent, it is very beautiful.
May you meet such a person who is in tune with you for the rest of your life.