The best state of life: anytime, anytime, casual

/July 2022

there is a saying in the Buddhist sutra: "everything that follows fate, what should come will come, and what should go will go."

the hardest thing to do in a person's life is the word "follow".


at any time: the wind does not end, showers do not last all day

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there is a saying: "everything is temporary, everything will disappear."

A person's life is not really plain sailing, there is no absolute bad luck, life is just countless moments of ups and downs.

I have heard such a story.

one day, Rubens walked out of the office and stopped a taxi.

as soon as I got on the bus, I felt that the driver was a very happy person.

he was whistling and singing. Seeing how happy he was, Rubens said, "you seem to be in a good mood today."

the driver replied, "of course! Recently, I have learned a truth. "

then he told Rubens about his own experience.

one winter morning, he wanted to make more money during the rush hour, so he drove out early, but the tire blew out not far away.

at that time, he was about to explode with anger, complaining and changing tires, in a very bad mood.

just then, a truck stopped next to him, and the driver jumped out of the car and began to repair his car.

after the tire was repaired, he thanked again and again, but the truck driver waved, jumped into the car and left disapprovingly.

the driver continued:

"at first I was angry because of a flat tire, but then because of the help of the truck driver, I felt better, and even good luck seemed to follow.

that morning, the guests were so busy that they had more money in their pockets.

Sir, if you lose your horse, you can't know it's not a blessing. Don't be upset just because things don't go well. Things will take a turn for the better at any time. "

there is a saying in Daojing: "the wind does not end, showers do not last all day."

A person's life consists of many different fortunes.

sometimes good, sometimes bad, sometimes smooth, sometimes reverse, sometimes happy, sometimes sad.

maybe yesterday, it was sad, but today, it's all gone.

maybe one second, we are still stuck in difficulties and hurdles, and the next moment, there will be time and luck.

so you don't have to indulge in a bad mood at any time.

May you let nature take its course and live a comfortable life for the rest of your life.

in spite of favor or disgrace, I am free to watch the pre-court flowers blossom and fall; whether I go or stay unintentionally, I will follow the clouds of the sky.


Casual encounter: people are not forced to stay, things are not forced to stay

there is a saying in "Zengguang Xian Wen": "sometimes there must be in life, but don't force it all the time."

Don't be too hard on people or things.

pick it up when you encounter it, and put it down when you leave.

only in this way can you calmly face the breakup and success or failure in the impermanent journey of life.

once, when a wise man was traveling, he came across a woman crying by the side of the road. The wise man wanted to comfort and enlighten her.

when the wise man asked the woman why she was so sad, the woman said, "the person who was supposed to be with her for a lifetime suddenly left herself, but now she is alone."

the wise man smiled silently and said to the woman, "you should thank the man who abandoned you."

the woman was puzzled, so she asked the wise man why.

the wise man replied, "it is because you have left the wrong person that you have a chance to meet the right one."

after hearing this, the woman had an epiphany, sincerely thanked the wise man, and then went home happily.

there is a saying: "all contacts are guests, gathering and dispersing always follow fate."

in our lives, we will meet a lot of people.

when the fate is deep, we walk into each other. When the fate is shallow, we are estranged from each other.

you should always remember that what is wrong will leave and what is right will always come.

A mountain climber was lucky enough to be chosen to take part in climbing Mount Everest.

originally everyone had high hopes for him, thinking that he would definitely reach the top, but at an altitude of 6400 meters above sea level, he chose to give up because of lack of physical strength.

later, when he talked about the experience, everyone felt sorry for him.

but he said very calmly, No, I know best. The altitude of 6400 meters is the highest point of my mountaineering career. I have no regrets at all.

many times, we always force ourselves to prove ourselves.

but as long as you try your best, try your best, and strive for it, there is nothing to regret or regret.

as the saying goes, "people are not forced to stay, things are not forced."

some people will eventually become passers-by in our lives, and some things will eventually become a thing of the past that cannot be realized.

since the heart is gone and the strength is not enough, there is no need to do unnecessary struggle and entanglement.


casual: gather together, disagree, break up

there is such a paragraph:

I wonder if you find that when people are young, they are afraid of snubbing and offending others.

so we think about everything, be considerate everywhere, and often give in.

but at a certain age, you will understand that you don't have to invite everyone into your life.

learn to walk among people who know you.

there is a well-known allusion called "Guan Ning cut the table".

one day, Guan Ning and Hua Xin were weeding in the garden.

I saw a piece of gold on the ground.

Guan Ning was still waving his hoe. Hua Xin happily picked up the piece of gold and then threw it away.

on another occasion, they were reading on the same mat when a man in a tuxedo happened to pass by in a car with an enclosure.

Guan Ning is still reading as before, but Hua Xin puts down the book and goes out to watch.

so Guan Ning cut off the mat and sat separately from Hua Xin and said to him, "from now on, you are no longer my friend."

there is an old saying: "if the ways are different, they will not conspire with each other."

Life is short, and time and energy are limited.

when you meet people with different aspirations, you might as well get together and break up.

during the Wei and Jin dynasties, Ji Kang and Shantao, two of the "Seven Sages of Bamboo Forest", were once a pair of good friends.

Shan Tao was an official at that time. For the sake of Ji Kang's future, he recommended Ji Kang to the imperial court to replace him as an official.

but when Ji Kang heard the news, he wrote a Dear John letter to Shan Tao immediately.

the letter probably says that I am a lazy person, unable to adapt to the intrigues of officialdom, and I don't care about greed for fame and fortune, but you recommend me specially, so you can see that you don't know me at all.

there is a saying: "if we meet, we will gather; if we do not agree, we will break up."

there are many moments when we have thousands of worries and hesitations about a relationship that is drifting away.

but since we don't understand, there is no need to create more contradictions and misunderstandings.

since they are not in tune, they no longer have to hurt and disappoint each other.

Life does not need to be deliberate, casual is to follow the heart.


there was a saying on the Internet:

after going through a thousand sails and crossing a thousand mountains, you will eventually understand that the greatest wisdom in life lies in the word "follow".

when you encounter difficulties, don't worry about it. Things turn around at any time.

when you encounter regrets, don't entangle them, and don't force them if you have no predestination.

when there is a disagreement, it is most comfortable to get along with others.

click on it, and when you let go of your obsession, you will let go of torture.